
Carrying a Gun vs. Living the Lifestyle
By John Davey — a straight talk on responsibility, consistency, and mindset.
Plenty of people carry a gun. Fewer truly live the lifestyle.
What’s the difference? Mentality.
Carrying a firearm isn’t about strapping on steel like it’s another pocketknife or wallet. It’s waking up every day with discipline and awareness – choosing a tool that carries life-and-death responsibility and acting accordingly.
The Habits That Define the Lifestyle
- Safety first, always. My standard never changes: you leave my range with the same number of holes you came with. That mindset travels with you – range, store, home, everywhere.
- Consistency beats intensity. One flashy training day doesn’t prepare you. Steady reps do. Build muscle memory by doing it right until you can’t get it wrong.
- Humility over ego. Overconfidence gets people hurt. The most dangerous shooters I see aren’t new; they’re the ones who “already know.” Be coachable.
- Skills over stuff. Gear matters, but mindset and fundamentals matter more. When gear fails – and it can – skills keep you safe.
The Core: Responsibility
The gun is a tool. The foundation is responsibility – the decision to be safe, disciplined, and prepared for yourself, your family, and everyone around you.
That’s what separates someone who just carries from someone who actually lives the lifestyle.